Comedy star AiAi Delas Alas emotionally shared details of her recent separation from her husband Gerald Sibayan during an exclusive interview with Boy Abunda. AiAi, celebrating her birthday, candidly discussed the unexpected breakup and her feelings surrounding it.

At 60, AiAi has faced the challenges of a 31-year age gap with her 29-year-old husband Gerald. When Abunda asked about her current state, AiAi bravely responded, “Fighting!” but confirmed that the two had officially separated last month, on October 14.

The split, initiated by Gerald via a message from abroad, came as a shock to AiAi. 

She explained, “Nung last month pa nung October. Basta di ko makalimutan, October 14 na nagchat siya na madaling araw dito sa Pilipinas. Yun nga, sinabi niya na gusto niya magkaanak and hindi na siya happy. Medjo confused ako and shocked. Bakit ngayon? Bakit ngayong oras na to? Sana intayin mo muna akong makauwi sa America.”

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The actress expressed surprise at the timing, saying she had always known that a young partner might eventually desire a different path, but she was hopeful for a lasting marriage.

Also, AiAi admitted trying various methods to have children, including IVF, to meet Gerald’s wishes. She also hinted at possible infidelity where Gerlad had cheated back in 2019, which affected her trust.

Despite the emotional toll, AiAi said she chose not to “fight for love” to maintain her dignity and self-worth. She gracefully addressed Gerald.

“I hope yung hindi ko pa naibigay sayo, na hinahanap mong kaligayahan, sana makuha mo. And yung hinihiling mong anak, sana magkaroon ka ng healthy child. And I wish you well! Kasi sa sampong taong pinagsamahan natin, infairness naman to you, naging good husband ka naman. And siguro, ganon talaga ang buhay. Basta sana maging masaya ka nalang. And I wish you all the happiness na hinahanap mo.”

The interview illustrates typical Filipino separation, so here are some key points you need to know and keep in mind!

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What cultural perspectives on age gaps in relationships are common?

In the Philippines, significant age gaps in relationships often attract public attention and mixed reactions. While such relationships are not uncommon, traditional Filipino values sometimes emphasize compatibility in terms of life stage and interests. AiAi Delas Alas and Gerald Sibayan’s 31-year age gap brought challenges tied to their different life priorities, with AiAi already having adult children and a settled career, while Gerald still desired children and other life experiences. 

What is the importance of self-worth and dignity in relationships?

Self-worth and dignity are critical for personal happiness and mental well-being in relationships. When AiAi chose not to “fight for love,” she demonstrated the importance of maintaining self-respect despite the pain of separation. This decision reflects an understanding that, while love can be deeply meaningful, it should not come at the cost of one’s dignity. For AiAi, preserving her dignity allowed her to leave the relationship with grace, wishing Gerald happiness rather than clinging to a partnership that no longer met her needs. 

Through AiAi’s story, she offers insight into the challenges of love and separation, reminding us of the importance of self-respect, acceptance, and moving forward.

Check the full interview below:

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