Are situationships the Gen Z equivalent of relationships? The YouTube channel Rec Create explores this modern trend in their video, “Should There Be Rules in Situationships?”
These relationships offer the benefits of dating without the commitment. When asked about this, many guests responded, “It’s a trap.” They argued that it doesn’t count as a relationship due to the lack of exclusivity and labels; it’s simply two people enjoying the benefits of dating without the formalities.
However, some guests disagreed. Alexander Diaz elaborated, saying, “At one point or another, there are two people who may or may not be willing to 100% to go to a certain length.”
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Lyca shares that she considers it a relationship since you go out on dates with them. Additionally, you get to meet your friends, which are common characteristics of a romantic relationship without the label. The guests further explain that these relationships often begin because people crave instant love but don’t want to commit.
In the next chapter of the video, they were asked if situationships are an excuse to avoid commitment. The majority answered, “Yes, actually!”
Cza adds, “There’s no responsibility. You get to know the person, you get to be with, you get to experience the feeling of being in a relationship. Habang tumatagal mas lalong nagkakaroon ng trauma yung mga tao. And then ayaw na nilang mag commit, getting to know nalang. And not getting into so much responsibility. Mas nagiging coward yung mga tao.”
Moreover, when asked if these relationships are as emotionally fulfilling as traditional ones, they answered yes. This is because you get to do all the things you typically do in a committed relationship, just without the label.
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Situationships are tricky because they involve a partner who can see other people. Opinions vary, with some saying it depends on what was initially agreed upon between the individuals. This stage can also serve as a getting-to-know phase for those seeking commitment.
Essentially, situationships are intimate relationships without the responsibility. Individuals can have a significant other without officially dating. While there are many gray areas, communication is key to ensure no one’s time is wasted. Watch their video here:
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