Alvin Miranda and Jappy Reyes, a gay couple, shared their parenthood journey through surrogacy in a recent episode of Modern Parenting PH’s Couch Talk.

Their story highlights some insights, as well as the legal and social challenges faced by LGBTQ+ couples and individuals in the Philippines.

In the episode, Alvin opened up the potential legal hurdles they face as a gay couple:

“The biggest issue in the Philippines, it really boils down to the fact that there’s no gay marriage here.” he remarked.

He explained that because they are not recognized as a married couple in the Philippines, they do not have the same rights as heterosexual couples.

For instance, Alvin cannot make medical decisions for Jappy, and they cannot inherit each other’s property.

“We’re blessed because our families accept us but it’s not a reality for most gay couples.” he expressed.

They also highlighted legal challenges when children are involved in the picture.

“Now it becomes harder because we have kids. All of the things we’ve worked hard for, because we’re not recognized as a couple, technically it can be challenged by our respective families that it’s theirs and not our babies.” Alvin noted.

He further emphasized that what they’re going for is their rights as a person, not the recognition of the church.

“We just want the same rights in terms of medical benefits, land benefit, the right to own a property together. The rights that a lot of people take for granted just because it’s been given to them. That’s all we’re really fighting for.” he clarified.

Jappy supported Alvin’s statement saying, “We’re hopeful that once that happens the social stigma will also lessen.”

Alvin and Jappy’s story sheds light on the realities faced by LGBTQ+ couples in the Philippines, highlighting the legal gaps and societal challenges that come with the absence of marriage equality. 

Their journey to parenthood through surrogacy not only reflects their love and commitment but also underscores the need for equal rights and protections for all families, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. 

As they advocate for legal recognition and social acceptance, their story serves as a powerful reminder that the fight for equality is not about seeking special treatment but about ensuring that every individual has the same rights regardless of whom they end with.

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